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The Wedding at Cana – Yours & Mine

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The Gospel this weekend is one where you can really use your imagination. You yourself can enter in and out of the Wedding Feast at Cana.

All of a sudden, you hear a woman’s voice say ever so loudly: “They have no more wine!” You turn around and to your horror and your embarrassment, the woman who said, “They have no more wine,” is pointing at YOU.

The woman has been milling around you and she’s been looking at you. She has been reading your face. She’s been studying your heart. Actually, the woman has been reading your life story. A God Notice.

The woman, who you now recognize to be Mary, turns to her Son. She points to you as she remarks to her Son: “They have no more wine. Their wine has run out!”

What is Mary talking about as she points her Son towards you? I think you know what she is talking about

The school you have been going to, is a good school, but now you are getting bogged down with exams and term papers. The wine has run out!

Your job is an exciting job and it pays fairly well, but there are long stretches of boredom and the challenge is gone. The wine has run out!

You and your friend are still close, but little misunderstandings have put some stress on the friendship. The wine has run out!

Your marriage is good, or was good, but somewhere along the line….The wine has run out!

Your faith sustained you when things were going well, but after a death, an illness, a loss….The wine has run out!

You look in the mirror and you hear yourself say, “I have no more wine!”

Mary, the woman in the Gospel with the loud voice was right. But remember, she wasn’t talking to you. She was talking to the person next to her, Jesus, her Son, who can do something about it. And what does Jesus do? Jesus takes what is so ordinary, ordinary water, and listens to what God the Father can do with it….Transform it into a rich wine.

You and I can do the same. We can take what is oh so ordinary and listen, really listen, and hear the voice of God the Father in the ordinary tragedies, the ordinary disappointments and the ordinary discomforts of life, because that is where God is speaking to us. And even more important, that is where God wants to transform us into rich wine. A God Flash.

You may remember Lee Atwater. He was a Republican political strategist who eventually became the Chairman of the Republican Party. By his own admission, Lee Atwater was an extremely ruthless man. He would find a weakness in a political opponent and he would attack him or her without mercy.

But in 1990 at the age of 40, the wine ran out for Lee Atwater. The doctors told him he had brain cancer. As a result, Lee Atwater had a choice to make. He could become bitter, withdrawn into a shell, look in the mirror and say, “I have no more wine!”

Lee Atwater chose another path. Though a lifelong Lutheran, he became a Catholic. And as an act of repentance, he issued a number of public and written apologies to all the people he had attacked during his political career. A God Witness.

A few weeks before he died in March, 1991 at the age of 41, Lee Atwater wrote this in the February edition of Life Magazine:

“My illness has taught me something about the nature of humanity, love, brotherhood, and relationships that I never understood and probably never would have. So from that standpoint, there is some truth and good in everything.

“In fighting Dukakis, as I did so vehemently in 1988, I said ‘I would strip the bark off the little b___d and make Willie Horton his running mate’. I am sorry for both statements: the first for its naked cruelty, the second because it makes me sound like a racist, which I am not.

“After the election I would run into Ron Brown, the Democratic National Chairman. I would say hello and then pass him off to one of my aides. I actually thought that talking to him would make me appear vulnerable.

“Since my illness, Ron has been enormously kind. He sent a baby present to my new daughter Sally who was born three weeks after I was stricken. He writes and calls me regularly. And I have learned a lesson: Politics and human relationships are separate. I may disagree with Ron Brown’s message, but I can love him as a man.“

February marks my 40th birthday – that deadline I set for achieving my life’s goals. I lie here in my bedroom, my face swollen from steroids, my body useless and in pain. I will probably never play the guitar again or run again. I can only hope to walk.

“The doctors still won’t answer that nagging question of mine: How long do I have? Three weeks? Three months? Three years? I try to live as if I have three years, but some nights I can’t go to sleep, so fearful am I that I will never wake up again.

My illness helped me to see that what was missing in society is what was missing in me: a little heart, a lot of brotherhood. The 1980’s were about acquiring – acquiring wealth, power, prestige. I know. I acquired more wealth, power and prestige than most. But you can acquire all you want and still feel empty.

What power wouldn’t I trade for a little more time with my family? What price wouldn’t I pay for an evening with friends? It took a deadly illness to put me eye to eye with that truth, but it is a truth that the country, caught up in its ruthless ambitions and moral decay, can learn on my dime.
“I don’t know who will lead us through the ‘90’s, but they must be made to speak to this spiritual vacuum at the heart of American society, this tumor of the soul.

”Three weeks after these words appeared, Lee Atwater died.

Because he listened during his illness, Lee Atwater blossomed into something he never was before.

Our own times of crying are asking us to listen.
Our own times of sickness are asking us to listen.
Our own times of brokenness are asking us to listen.

Our listening has a name. It is called prayer. In order for Jesus to transform us like he did water into wine, we have to listen to God speak to us. This is praying — Listening to God. A God Spark

Someday, someday sooner than we could ever imagine, the wine will completely run out for us, like it did for Lee Atwater. Before that finally happens, will we listen to our tears, our sickness and our brokenness and hear how spiritually rich God is calling us to be?

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