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or rudely to you, I\u2019ll swallow and be silent.
Loving you doesn\u2019t give me license for rudeness.
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If I can\u2019t be generous and supportive, I\u2019ll at least
try not to stand in your way.
Loving you means wanting you to grow.
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enough problems, I\u2019m certain, and you don\u2019t need mine.
My love should simplify your life, not complicate it.
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I don\u2019t always have to be right. I can accept
the fact that you are right as often as I am.
Loving is sharing with each other.
If I already know I\u2019m right, all the time,
I\u2019ll never profit from your insight<\/em>.<\/p>\n
Loving is an ebb and flow.
Sometimes I\u2019ll need to give in.
And at other times I\u2019ll need to take control.
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Love is a celebration of our humanness, not our perfection.<\/em><\/p>\n
you in my life, the best thing for the both of us is for me
to accept you as you are.
After all, love is moving forward together in mutual growth.
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I don\u2019t need to place blame. Since I\u2019m an adult
who makes decisions based up personal experience,
there is no one to blame for a poor decision except myself.
Love puts the responsibility where it belongs.
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to expect is another. One brings hope, the other can
bring pain. Love is free of expectations. <\/p>\n