{"id":5498,"date":"2020-06-28T01:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.treatsforthesoul.org\/?p=5498"},"modified":"2020-06-27T09:12:27","modified_gmt":"2020-06-27T13:12:27","slug":"the-cross-you-carry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.treatsforthesoul.org\/the-cross-you-carry\/","title":{"rendered":"The Cross You Carry"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<iframe title=\"The Cross You Carry 6\/28\/20\" height=\"122\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none;\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/media\/player\/fpu4v-e149a4?from=yiiadmin&#038;download=1&#038;version=1&#038;skin=1&#038;btn-skin=107&#038;auto=0&#038;share=1&#038;fonts=Helvetica&#038;download=1&#038;rtl=0&#038;pbad=1\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cWhoever loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up his cross and follow after me is not worthy of me\u201d<\/strong>  (Matthew 10: 37-42).\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>WOW! If we really listen to Jesus\u2019 words today and dwell on them, it\u2019s amazing that Jesus has as many followers as he does. He is saying that we are to love him MORE than our mother and our father, our sons or our daughters. How many of us can honestly say we love Jesus that much?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>I believe Jesus is trying to tell us that we are going to spend a lifetime with these family members, but we are going to spend an eternity with him. A hundred years of life on this planet is not a grain of sand on the shore to what our eternity with Jesus will mean.&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting to heaven will mean accepting what Jesus accepted \u2013 the Cross. \u201cWhoever does not take up his cross and follow after me is not worthy of me,\u201d Jesus goes on to say. The Cross is the sign of a true follower of Jesus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I believe a true follower of Jesus is asked to take up 3 types of crosses \u2013 the Cross of Inconvenience, the Cross of Witness, and the Cross of Martyrdom.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Cross of Inconvenience.<\/strong><em> <\/em><em>There was an elderly nun who prayed and prayed for a young nun in her community who was having doubts about her vocation. The elderly nun prayed that the young sister would see that she was wanted and valued. She prayed that God would give her the strength to overcome her doubts.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But she never went, at any time, to talk to the young sister. She never inconvenienced herself to tell the young nun how much she was appreciated and loved. When the young nun left the community, she was upset that her prayers were not answered. But she never took up the Cross of Inconvenience. She left things up to God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>So often we do the same. We see someone down or depressed. We pray for them, but we don\u2019t go out of our way to speak to them. We are not praying as a cross-bearing Christian. I pray for world peace, but I do not openly forgive someone who hurt me. So how can God bring about peace on earth? The Lord is counting on me to back up my prayer for world peace by inconveniencing myself and forgiving another person.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The second cross Jesus asks us to carry is the Cross of Witness.<\/strong><em> <\/em><em>It is difficult to carry this cross because we live in a world of conformity. Conformity sends teenage girls in search of diets and teenage boys in search of gyms and steroids. We all want to be like everyone else.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>I was in Chicago a few years ago for a week. I ate out in restaurants with friends six nights in a row. Each time we bowed our heads, joined hands and said grace. But the people who were at the table with me were uncomfortable ending the meal blessing prayer with the Sign of the Cross at the table. Why? Conformity. Be like everyone else in the restaurant!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>A boyhood friend of mine went into the Army during the Viet Nam war and knelt at his bed every night to say his prayers. For months he endured hoots and catcalls and shouts, \u201cHe wants his mama!\u201d By the time boot camp ended, every man in his platoon had come to him to ask about a problem or two they were having. He wound up being the most respected person in his platoon.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The third cross is the Cross of Martyrdom<\/strong> \u2013\u00a0<em>not the \u201cwet\u201d martyrdom of shedding out blood, but the \u201cdry\u201d martyrdom of surrendering our security. When I was talking to my friend Fr. Roland from Delray Beach, Florida, he shared with me that he and 13 of his Eucharistic Ministers from his parish travel twice a year to work among the materially poor Haitians. Not only do they GIVE Communion in South Florida, but they also ARE Communion. They give hope to the poorest of the poor. They pick up the Cross of Martyrdom and carry it to the needy.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In her book, Out of Africa, Isak Dinesen tells the story of a young man from the Kikuya tribe who worked for her on her farm for 3 months. He suddenly announced that he was leaving her to go to work for a Muslim man nearby. Surprised, she asked him if he was unhappy with her.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>He told her that all was well, but that he had decided to work for a Christian for 3 months to study the ways of Christians and then to work for a Muslim for 3 months to study the ways of Muslims. After experiencing both, he was going to decide whether to become a Christian or a Muslim.&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If this young man lived among us and saw how we acted and how we treated each other, whose disciple would he choose to be \u2013 Jesus or Mohammed?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;What reasons do you give for your answer?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWhoever loves his father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves his son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up his cross and follow after me is not worthy of me\u201d (Matthew 10: 37-42).\u00a0 WOW! 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