{"id":6468,"date":"2020-12-31T01:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-31T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.treatsforthesoul.org\/?p=6468"},"modified":"2020-12-30T20:11:38","modified_gmt":"2020-12-31T01:11:38","slug":"stay-above-the-fray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.treatsforthesoul.org\/stay-above-the-fray\/","title":{"rendered":"Stay Above the Fray!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<iframe title=\"Stay Above the Fray! 12\/31\/20\" height=\"122\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none;\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/media\/player\/ckyjc-f64d66?from=pb6admin&#038;download=1&#038;version=1&#038;auto=0&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;rtl=0&#038;fonts=Helvetica&#038;skin=1&#038;pfauth=&#038;btn-skin=107\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>At the beginning of a&nbsp;New&nbsp;Year, a high school principal decided to post his teachers&#8217;&nbsp;New&nbsp;Year&#8217;s resolutions on the bulletin board.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0As the teachers gathered around the bulletin board, a great commotion started. One of the teachers was complaining.\u00a0<em>&#8220;Why weren&#8217;t my resolutions posted?&#8221;<\/em>  She was throwing such a temper tantrum that the principal hurried back to his office to see if he had overlooked her resolutions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Sure enough, he had mislaid them on his desk. As he read her resolutions he was astounded<strong>.\u00a0<em>This teacher&#8217;s first resolution was not to let little things upset her in the\u00a0New\u00a0Year.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>When I\u2019m really honest with myself, I find that I\u2019m very much like that teacher. I tell myself, I even make a resolution, that I\u2019m not going to let little things upset me. Then someone starts talking about a political figure I strongly disagree with and I get upset and speak my mind. I tell myself that it\u2019s okay because these are not \u201clittle things.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have to admit that the people I admire the most are those who can stay above the fray. Jesus was one of them. When his disciples were arguing about who was the greatest, he put a little child in their midst. When confronted with paying the tax, he called for a coin and asked whose face was on it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cYou are most powerful when you are most silent. People never expect silence. People expect words, motion, defense, offense, back and forth. People expect you to leap into the fray. They are ready, fists up, words leaping from their mouths. But silence? NO.\u201d<\/strong>   (Alison McGhee)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Are you going to be any different in 2021 in talking about politics and political figures? People who stay above the fray listen, stay silent, contribute and keep their cool. 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